I also find that right now I am in no hurry to get married again, but am a bit cautious.....unless I can figure out what just happened, how can I prevent it from happening again ?

So I have done a lot of thinking about what I have learned.

In fact, an ex-girlfriend and I got together ( she called me, heard I was seperated) and she asked me just that question.

And I think I will get into that in future posts. Cause it helps to verbalize these things. Helps me to know what I know, you know?

Last edited by native; 08/13/09 02:28 AM.
Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09