he was back, i think

[bluerain]

It seemed so funny to me that when I broke it off with the first guy I dated, he made all of the mistakes! He didnt know about DBing at all obviously! Pursued, pestered, all of it. I actually saw what I had done to H first hand, and how obnoxious it was. It made me feel pretty icky, but was a heck of a wake up call!

Even if you never hear from the new guy again, I think that this whole interlude has healed you some more, and let you detach even more!