Hi SD, yes I am quite shaken now as it always happens when he isn't home, I hate to think that H would do something like that, but I know you are right, I have to be open to that, it is all so suspicious and yes it is strange that someone would keep coming back, as surely they would know by now that I would have called the police and our estate has on site security and panic buttons in the house.
There is a lot that doesn't make sense. Unfortunately it is illegal for us here in oz to carry any kind of pepper sprays or anything, as the police said, we are so sorry but until he gets in and hurts you, we can't touch him. I did get his car registration this time and I now know the type of car he drives.
The police want me to ask the neighbours if they have seen him around at other times in the day.
No wonder I am so edgy today, everyone and everything is irritating me at present. I can even feel my heart rate going nuts now, the medication isn't even helping that. What a mess.