DO NOT have her come home with you. She needs to get this out of her system. Let her deal with her own consequences. Concentrate on the kids.

If she does go home with you she will blame you for ruining her time alone. All you are doing is giving her what she's been asking for all this time.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER