Well Mach beat me to the punch again. Now let me see if I can soften his blow a bit.
As a woman I can say this, women are screwy LOL. She did what she did with the tickets and then asked you to go because that was how she was feeling AT THAT MOMENT. That more than anything is the fun of MLC, one minute they want this, the next minute they want that. Remember shopping with your kids when they were toddlers? Same thing.
Yes remember no R talks if you can avoid it. Not right now anyway.
The time frame, yes it is nice to say I will do this for this long, and then I'm done. But you didn't say I will marry you until you lose your mind, the sky turns purple, or whatever. At least I didn't say that. You will do it until you can't do it anymore. That may be a year, it may be ten. Only you will know but setting a deadline really is just setting yourself up for failure.
Come here, vent, read, listen and learn. There are plenty of good people here.
Mach, I love the fifty year thing. You always manage to say something to make me think a little more. Thanks!
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
