Commented about this a bit on my thread. Yes I think we all go on our own rollercoaster, but at least for me, it is more like a see saw or a swing now (you know, up and down, back and forth). You will be ok.
Yes my H went through this too at the end of last year, finally doing things I had been waiting for for a long time. Just part of the process. I think they test the waters for themselves in so many ways, just trying to make sense out of stuff and feel productive.
Are you still praying and meditating? That helps to settle me when the swing starts to move.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox