Thanks for the welcome. Don't know what I'll write since I usually write in response...
No rethinking, no comments, just Mr. Nice Guy. No rethinking on my part either. Of course, I won't bring it up again unless I feel it is necessary. Just saying it, and being firm and not angry was enough for him to know I'm about wore out.
So busy day here, finally feeling like I am acutally making progress on my house after almost three years. I know I have been getting stuff done over this last year, but it has all been really small stuff simply because I didn't have the focus to do anything that took more than a day. Leaving anything started and not completed was making me nuts, which it never has in the past because I have always understood that some things take more than one day to do. So I have left a whole bunch of projects, that I simply couldn't tackle because I knew they needed more than one day to finish. But I have begun finishing them in this last week or so and I feel really good. And no anxiety that they is still more left to do tomorrow. Boy as I write I feel like maybe I was the one in MLC LOL. No I'm not but I definately faced a crisis of my own because of all of this. Maybe someday H will find his peace as well.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox