Thanks so much for the book list. I love the preview feature of Amazon and I'm going on tonight to see if I can find a used copy of DB and DR. I know they are going to be a really big key to all of this. I really am trying to GAL. I just finished my Bachellors and I go to 2 12-step meetings a week. I have friends, a great job. I go Karaoke. I'm really doing my best to keep myself busy. I've recently (in the past 2 years) lost 123 lbs and I have 57 more to go so I'm starting a running program. I have a 3 year old so other than what I have above, I'm really sort of tied to the house cuz I don't have a lot of baby-sitting support.
As far as the chasing thing went, I think that I'm assuming that he would never, ever chase me at this stage. I mean, if I didnt' suggest we did something I don't think it would ever happen. But, I know this is what they say works so I'm going to try my hardest. Thanks so much for all your terrific advice. Gina B
M 43 H 34 D 4 H asked for D on 6/21/09:1st D mediation 7/27;D says he wants to try 8/18; *I will stumble, I will fall down but I will not be moved.(N.Grant)
