My keylogger worked. I found pictures with them in bed, letters from her trying to convince him their love is worth it, they made love on July 19, 2009.
He loves her but the kids are the problem.
I called him here. I am crushed. Mad, sad, furious. K
K, It took me a while to find this pivotal post but it explains the behavior of 'H' - strange work hours, distance, guilt, etc. I do not know what to tell you for now other than my thoughts are with you. At some point your anger will change to smartness but easier said. ( I was probably away for over a month - busier than ever renovating my house for 2 growing kids, my work and a small vacation. Sorry but I did not forget you all along.)
