"I'm sorry this continues to hurt you but there's just no other way."

"I care more about you than the marriage."

"She's (the OW) my mirror image. She makes my ADHD look like a walk in the park."

"This is awful for OW too. Put yourself in her position."

"I've been a good husband for 20 years, I don't deserve this." (When I told him I wanted all of his retirement fund for the D settlement)

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10