I think you are doing the right thing at this point of not have intimate relations with your H. He probably thinks that sex is a way to show you that he loves you. He has no other ways of showing his feelings to you would be my guess?

This is from what I have gathered from my own stitch. My H has said that he feels that sex is the bgest way to show someone that you love them. I believe that there are other ways. And if you H is kinda like mine then that may be what he thinks too.

I agree with STOPPING.

I am thinking about you and praying for you to have the strength to see this through until you can go to the MC.

Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09