Thank you thank you thank you... Sandy, I am so very sorry about your mom...
Deauxlie and FIB, I think my stbx is relievd that I foudn out but he didnt have the guts to let it happen. He underestimated me. He would have erased the pics and some "amazing' emails. Also, he wouldnt let me see this was going on since 2006...
When he talks about her now (the first night and during a phonecall) he sounds disgusted with her. He sounds that he doesnt think much of her, talked to my brother today who has been pretty clear about what he thinks (it's over move on). Seeing H's TMs he asked me what will I do. I said I am DIVORCING the bastard. He told me he thinks H got caught in the web of sexual adrenaline (poor language, sorry) and then he moved out but he wasnt happy, he probably figured out a few things thats why he came back but wasnt strong enough to cut it off with her, feeling guilty towards her as well...
What do I do with my anger now that it surfaced? I left her a mesage. Said "we will talk". Just to keep her worrying... K
