DID XH M OW or not??

[peacetoday]

I saw XH Today
No wedding band
but I asked him
did you get married
He said YES

I felt hurt all over AGAIN
i THOUGHT MAYBE It was a mistake
deniual i guess
I cant believe he M her
so I asked about her son..
"would son be living with them?
XH got angry
there is no son
it not hers??
then he said it was a girl in between outbusts

so I cant really ask him simple personal questions
again he blamed me for setting strict boundries with kids and him ect
he tries to make the whole A and all his debt ect my fault and he believes it
sad
I feel hurt and I need to go less contact
XH continues to steal from business- just smaller amounts
hard to get him to stop as he is devious

still the part I cant get is how they can just shut it all off and go
peace