Getting Un"Stuck" - Giving My Burden to God

[MrBond]

Actually for everyone who wants to check out the projecthappilyeverafter site, it's written by a woman who was an almost WAW.

It wasn't until SHE made the decision to change things that her M got better. Her H is just lucky he didn't end up like the rest of us here.

She's great in terms of writing about what made her want to change and stuff. It works great hand in hand with DB.

I think many of us on the board continue to stay "stuck" in a holding pattern because we rely too much on our WAS's reaction. Well you know what? Screw that. Do what you can and want to do. See what works. If something doesn't work, do something different.

I still keep a journal to track my progress and with each new thing I do, I give it a couple of weeks to see how it goes. If acting distant doesn't work, I'll start getting closer. As long as it doesn't cross any of my boundaries.