OK, I took out part of what you said, I edited it! It I love what it says! In other words both parties must forgive themselves and each other, is that what you meant?
Deb
yup! means don't get caught up in holding a grudge against your spouse for whatever their indiscretions were..if they are making up for them look at that instead.
and also don't get caught up in blaming yourself for whatever happend either...living life on egg shells is no place to be...I think that's part of the reason so many at one time lbs's become waw's themselves..they never learn to just be.
