Fixer, you are sad and lonely and that is very sad. You've been at this for too long too still be so sad and lonely.

What are your goals? nothing that pertains to your W. What are YOUR goals?

Have you ever tried to just throw it up in the air and walk away and don't worry about where everything lands or who will pick up the pieces. Take a break. Stop stressing about your W leaving or staying, or yourself. She hasn't left in 5 years....why would she now?

What I've learned is that I can only depend on myself to make me smile and be happy.


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.