Quote: forgiveness is not an easy thing to come by but I think far to many of us get stuck in thinking they alone must forgive. We each must learn to forgive us and our spouses..forgive ourselves and forgive them..move on and make things better for ourselves and our marriages..holding on to the past indiscretions will not get us there.
OK, I took out part of what you said, I edited it! It I love what it says! In other words both parties must forgive themselves and each other, is that what you meant?
