I have a list of books on the first post of my thread that are worth reading. Amazon lets you "preview" books. Read all the previews......
The counter intuitive thing is very important also. When you have an urge to chase him, it is best to let him chase you. I found that thinking about the "time away" as a vacation from the relationship worked. Is it better to be away and let him miss you, or be in his presence and have him resent you?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
