Quote:

glad you had fun at the anniversary party ... kissing eh? wouldn't you be doing the same thing if you were married to the same person for 50 years???

i can't even fathom that!



kiti,
what was kinda funny is that as my h and I sat there (on one chair mind you) watching the couple dance, I counted out the years and realized it would be 2047 by the time we'd reach our 50th...I told him and thought we wouldn't be around then (not not together just that year seems to far away to still be alive) he looked at me and said you bet will will and kissed me on the cheek! I think he was assuming I was implying not together.

Quote:

LL...I'm nearly speechless!!! I HATE to say "I told you so"...but I think I DID!!!!




shiny,

ya ya ya...you told me so. You and many others...I've been wanting to do it for a long time now...even thought of briging them with me when we went away for our anniversary. I'm glad I finally just did it but man I forgot how blinding these rings were...I took them off well over a year ago!

Quote:

You know what I love most about this???? It was a two person job...you took a step in then h took a step in then you did then...

You see my point.

man, you've (both) come a long way, baby!

Sage



is this a virginia slims comercial ! I guess I just figured being stubborn about it wasn't getting me anywhere so I took a step and it was well received!

Quote:

Comes back to the ASSumptions thing doesn't it...it very clearly states to me that mindreading doesn't work, we can't ASSume we know how they feel.

I'm stealing this from you--- very

Cathy



yes both h and I have made alot of false ASSumptions in our r...we're both getting much better at it or rather at not doing making assumptions or at least admiting to them soon enough to clear them away.

it's nice to see so many of you stopping by to offer smiles and congrats on my big baby step. Thanks!

LL