I completely 100% agree with you. I've hurt him horribly. I don't expect the open arms thing...but this complete "I'm done." thing is just sooo hard. So, no relationship talk. I have a work dinner I was invited to and I asked him to go on Sat. He said he would. Should I have not asked him? I don't wan to seem completely cut off. I'm going on Amazon to look at used copies of DR. It might be affordable. We are drowning in debt right now and I want to get the books but with medical bills and therapy bills it's just really difficult. I wanted to thank you for taking the time to respond in such a caring and compassionate way. I will do my best to give him the space he needs..it's just so counterintuitive. I really, really love this man and my family. I know my actions haven't shown it but it's true.
Take good care and thanks again...Gina
M 43 H 34 D 4 H asked for D on 6/21/09:1st D mediation 7/27;D says he wants to try 8/18; *I will stumble, I will fall down but I will not be moved.(N.Grant)