Well, she changed her passwords. I suspected as such. I knew she would have figured out that I had gotten into her email accounts.
I just hope she doesn't throw out my boy's laptop. Perhaps she will be dumb enough to actually use it again to logon....
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
She tried to put the blame on me but I just stopped her and said I don't care what she thinks anymore as since she put someone else's penis in her mouth back in Nov, she had lost all right to put blame on me.
That's hard, CIPA...but you are EXACTLY RIGHT! Nothing, and I mean NOTHING...justifies one spouse cheating on the other! Nothing that you ever did justifies her doing what she did!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
Hang in there buddy, the pain and the anger are going to be around for awhile. When i found out my W was kissing her boss, I pretty much puked when I first heard, then the anger kicked in. That was over a year ago and I still have the anger at times. It's been the hardest thing in the world for me to forgive. Especially since she still has never apologized for anything.
Your W is following the cheating/lying script. They all do the exact same thing. Think of your boys and REALLY GAL.
Keep posting here often though this is the roughest time you're ever going to go through and I want to help you through it as well as others.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
I'm really not sure if I can forgive what she did. The emails that they exchanged were very graphic/detailed and made me want to puke. In it, was very much what she did and said when we first dated and fell in love. She kept professing her love to this guy and this guy did the same. About 2 weeks ago, it looked like he stopped responding, which is about the time she started being nice to be again. Bad part of it, is that she started chatting with another guy on match during that time as well and even on Sunday (after our good Sat nite conversation) she had "winked" at a few other guys.
In retrospec it was dumb of me to text the waitress pic and saying she wanted to say goodnite to the boys since they were asking for her. It really blew up into this confrontation. I had really wanted to blindside her like she did me.
Now that she has changed all her passwords, at least I won't be wasting any more time learning about things that I already new. She is a pig that is absolutely disgusting. She is not the woman I married.
She is going to be a very expensive babysitter for my boys. I just wish I could fire her, but my lawyer says I can't.
Absolutely disgusting....
I think I've now detached.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
divorce busters....I think that's MWD specific page. You're looking for a red heard, with a bandaid and brownish-black background.
If I join it, won't my wife see it video the facebook status updates (she is on my "friend" list)
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
the "DB or not DB" group won't show in your profile, you have to be invited to join. Kalni can get you in.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
If I join it, won't my wife see it video the facebook status updates (she is on my "friend" list)
I had that same concern. Do what I did. I created a new FB page with my screen name from here (GivinIt MyAll) (you could call yourself CIPA, whatever), tied to a new email account (can be yahoo, gmail, whatever) W doesn't know about. So, my DB FB page won't show up if you search on my name, and my W certainly is not a firend on that page of mine.
Look me up if you want.
Oh, and might want to de-friend your W from your regular FB page.
