Putting Out the Fire with Gasoline...

[blindsided1]

His comment about keeping her full time is a button he pushes when he's mad at me. He know it gets me everytime. So, he uses it to get me to fight. Gotta work harder on ignoring that BS. I have been writing everything down since day one.
Even after we got the custody order, I continue to write EVERYTHING down.

Gotta let them waffle. I know that when she complains, I have the upper hand. I have the power because she is pissed off about something. Most likely, it's some lie ExH has told her about me or something I have done.

So, he has been exaggerating our interactions. Aparently, he tells people that everytime he sees me, we get into an fight and I tell him he is a bad dad. This time, according to him, I said he was a bad dad for not bringing her shorts back. WTH? Come on? Does anyone with one inch of a brain really believe that crap? Seriously. She must want, desperately to think that we hate each other and can't stand to be around each other at any given minute. Maybe that's how she pushes her mistrust of him away. If she can talk herself (or he can talk her) into believing that we can't stand to be near each other. Then, he would never make a pass at me. Right? She knows. I know she knows that he is untrustworthy. I felt it after a few months. How can she not feel it after a year and a half? I guess it doesn't fit into her fantasy world. That's okay. She can have the fantasy world. Now that I know what ExH is capable of, there is no way I could ever be happy in a marriage with him. I just would not be able to trust him. He lies waaaayyyy too much and he cheats constantly. He's alllll yours April.