Thanks Tomato. It's hard to cut off my communication with ExH. I have really been working on my control issues, especially trying to control THIS situation. But, I still have work to do.

I am still smiling today even though I found out that ExH is lying to OW about me and our situation/interaction. I'll explain in a moment.

M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him