can you imagine, with positive imagery, a life without him that is HAPPY for you?
I would suggest you come up with at least 3 images of things in your future, career, geographic, etc, that help you visualize a happy life in the future on your own? It's crucial for all of us b/c even happily married people can lose their spouses and can't just give up on life. Right? So we ALL have to know deep down that we'll be alright no matter what, eventually. Working through our grief is part of life, yes that's true. But we do MOVE on and sometimes just the images help us to know with a picture or two, that we will be well, and content, again. The timing of that is largely up to US.
J-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
