I have tried this. She stops for a short time, but can't follow through saying it is too hard. Do I need to be prepared to walk out if she can't do it? The MC told me not to make any decisions until the psychiatrist can get her emotions stabilized. She seems to be much better now, but her appointment with the psychiatrist is not until next week. I know that I need to push this hard at some point, I am just wondering about the timing. She doesn't want to be "controlled" or "manipulated".


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1