Trying very hard to be that man. We'll see how this evening goes...
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
Well, we went to Chuck E Cheese. My folks went too. W was in a bit of a pissy mood, but tolerable. After that we went to a carnival at Ws work. She actually brightened up a bit, and we had some fun with the boys. She basically set up the entire carnival and went around checking things out. I think that since it was going well, she felt good. When we got home, she toned back down. She went to bed, I am watching a little TV. There are times when w seems lime herself. Alot of times when we are out as a family, she gets pretty good. I will have to capitolize on that. See you all in the morning.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
Here is a question, as I posted earlier, W is going to a concert with her niece in October without me. There is Whiskeyfest coming in November that I would like to attend, it is an evening into late night thing. If I order a ticket now for myself, won't it look like I am doing it just to get back at her? Her going to this concert without me is like a slap in the face, kinda. So me doing this thing on my own might look like tit for tat. I don't want to look like I am playing games, but I do want to show her I am independant of her.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
That's not a bad idea, but I don't think she would go to this even if things were OK. I will, however, ask her to go with me to the Titanic exhibit. That she might like. Right now, though, I am really angry at her for not inviting me to the concert. I don't know if I want to hang out with her right now. Like last night, we took the kids to the Chuck e Cheese and carnival. We followed the boys around as they played and it was good all being together, but every once in a while I would look at her and realize how much she is hurting me. I push it aside so as not to ruin the kids' evening, they were having a lot of fun and I didn't want to get into a pissing match with her in front of them. She didn't bring up the concert again, and neither did I.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
BTW, earlier I had posted that W had accepted an invitation to go to a country concert with her niece on myface.
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The two tickets she bought were for the two of them. I just got a text: "Forgot to tell you, I got tickets for Kieth Urban and Sugarland for me and (niece) on Oct. 8.
I call this a red flag.
So, your niece invites your wife to a concert and your WIFE purchases the tickets?
So, the niece doesn't want to go to a concert with her NEW boyfriend? Your niece invites your wife and doesn't buy the tickets?
These are red flags Orich of your wife lying to you and very possibly setting up a rendevous with OM....
Be smart. Be wise. Don't be naive and believe everything she tells you. The niece could very well be her "cover" person...
Usually a girl with a "new" boyfriend WANTS to spend most all of her time with HIM. She WANTS to go to concerts and such with HIM. She invites HIM to concerts and such...
PLUS the fact that YOU weren't invited and she "forgot" to tell you.
RED FLAGS ALL AROUND. Face them.
2+2 still equals 4....
Go read confusedinpa's thread again.. He has been getting fooled for almost a year and just didn't want to believe that she could even possibly lie to him.
