He had said that he was going to be at the house last night, but I didn't really expect him to be. He usually ends up at her house regardless of his "plans".
I called him (GRRR!) to see if he was really staying there or if I could. I left a voice message saying that I was headed out to pick up a few of my things but I would not bring anything to stay in case he really was staying there. I got a text back that he was staying there tonight. Thought that was odd, so I called him back to let him know that I just wanted a few things from the barn so I would be out but not stay. He said no, he had "company".
Please, is it not bad enough that he has my house, all my furniture that I have left there until he refinances and gets my name off so I can get a place of my own? He has been spending ALL his time at her house... WHY does he now need to take her there to sleep in MY bed? This is what went through my head at the time...
I flipped out a little and did tell him NOT to sleep in MY bed. He said he would talk to me later about it and hung up. I tried to call back but he wouldn't answer. (my mistake) I just sent a text asking "What is wrong with her house?"
I went ahead and went to the barn at the house and got my things. Did not go to the house, was only up there 5 minutes and left immediately.
An hour later I get a call from him asking "What are you doing to me?" He said she was just out there to help him clean. Insinuated that she was never planning to spend the night, but I don't believe that. Said they fought and she got mad and left. I don't think that is my fault, sorry. I was not really in the mood to listen, he said he would call me back, I said don't bother.
He tried to call me two more times last night and I didn't answer either call. Not going to call him today, even to see if the house is still available for me to stay in. MIGHT text him to ask later this afternoon, but ideally I will not contact him and will just ask him IF he calls me. If I don't hear from him by tomorrow I will text and ask if I can spend Thursday night there. I mean, good grief, it's still my house and all my belongings there.
Had a REALLY emotional day yesterday and not going too well today. I think I might be able to detach now. It just feels like I am sort of giving up.
