I would make it low key. Maybe have the party at a park where the expense is low, guests can come and go and it's a neutral site. Instead of ripping them off get a pinata, let H spin everyone and you give your family a Louisville Slugger and a blindfold with holes in it. You can handle it. Cheers ps Save the tequila for later.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
