This is a wonderful site and there is good advice available for you. I am in the same boat as you when it comes to DBing from another state. I am live in NY and my H moved to GA. We have been separated for 3 1/2 months now. I only see him every six weeks or so when he comes to visit the kids. At first, GAL will be hard (I am still working on it) but it will getting easier. There are going to be up days and down days but have faith that the up days will soon outweigh the down days.
The DR book is really good in guiding your actions and how to deal with WAS. I have read it twice already. I will be following your sitch and feel free to check out mine.
Take Care
Me:34 H:34 D:7 D:6 D:3 T:20years M:10years Bomb: Feburary 2009 Separated: May 2009 EA confirmed March 2010