LL...if you remember my story..about the ff...I too wondered about the PA...but my h actions now have convinced me for good that "it" did not happen...I have had a hard time(and you know better than anyone) to admitting to an EA..but I see it was..h told me there was nothing romantic between them...and possibly with your h, this other b@#&@ needed some boosting for her self-esteem and your h was there for her...gave her attention, listened to her..felt like he was helping her...was it ok?no not to the extreme of hurting a m, but I truly beleive that there does not have to be sex in every affair.
You have gotten to the next level..I can hear it in your posts..it is so great to see your success and your strength.
