My W spent a total of 2 nights on the couch since we stopped being intimate, and that was over a month ago. We have been in the same bed for the duration, and it is difficult. I have to stagger my bedtime to hers, I go before her to be asleep when she gets in, or less desireably, crawl in after she is asleep. But every night I am reminded of what I am missing when I see her lying there in our marital bed.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.