Although I am not officially divorced, I was wondering if there is any input here (not necessarily from dads), about selecting joint shared vs. joint physical custody.

I am a hands on father, love my children, but, I AM a physician and DO get called away at times. That wouldn't mean that I can't get coverage either by family that live nearby or some type of nanny or live in.

I want what's best for my kids. I participate in homework, etc, but, I DON'T want to be a 'we just visit dad' dad.

Any other's out there that faced the same choice?

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;