Ups and Downs

[Energizer Bunny]

Thanks for your thought and feedback Coach. I've read a lot of what you have said on the boards here and you really seem to have it together.

Since I will have S tonight, I will have to come up with something fun for us to do. (As an added bonus, we'll have to leave before she does and do something fun enough that she will feel like she's missing out.) Primary thing will be to go out and do something for S and myself though.

As far as not "letting" her treat me this way, I'm not sure how else to respone to a text like that. It doesn't phase her a bit if I go out on nights she's home. She generally seems to appreciate being left alone!

I can't ask her where she's going because she says it's "controlling." I can't say anything about her going out 3-4 nights a week because she "needs her freedom" and I'm trying to detach.

Any suggestions?