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Then just texted me that she will be out tonight. Actually just said "can you be home for the night with S after 8." I just said "yep." No asking why. No telling me why.


You make plans for yourself and turn the tables on her. "Hey Wife I am going out on Fri and Sat night. You need to stay home."

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It seems SOOO disrespectful to treat your husband this way,


SOOO stop letting her treat you this way. You have a choice in how you handle things.


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Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.