Hard to roll with it. She got home at 12:15 last night. Then just texted me that she will be out tonight. Actually just said "can you be home for the night with S after 8." I just said "yep." No asking why. No telling me why.

Argh!!! I'm detaching...I'm detaching.

It doesn't bother me as much as it used to. Not nearly as much. It seems SOOO disrespectful to treat your husband this way, but as it's been pointed out to me before, she's all about her right now and is not emotionally in our marriage anymore. The last thing that she wants to do is have to explain herself to me.

I might "get it," but it doesn't mean that I have to like it.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.