I was supposed to get divorced tomorrow - part 2

[iwantittowork]

I get to keep maybe $350 a month after I pay the W (I get to give her over $3200/mo)

I have not been following your complete thread, but how in the Sam Heck did that seem a fair order for court system to impose on you? Did you agree to this, or have a L involved? How about taking your current monthly bills and asking for a change in these orders? I understand from my L, you have to be able to pay your own bills and survive as well. They can't force you to homelessness so you W can stay at home!

I don't want to sidetrack you, as I sense you need some support. I can only offer my thoughts and prayers, hopefully you will have some more time with your kids, they are yours too, you should never feel like your supposed to 'borrow' them..