I am just getting back to reality here after the death of my mother to find this. It is not so surprising as you have felt "something" all along was amiss. It seems after your trip last year it shook his foundation and he jumped into trying to get you not to move forward in anyway. That said it really looks like H is very confused and from the sounds of it that he was seeming to try to get out of it but didn't know how? She sounds like a major pursorer (sp?) Lame I know. I am sorry you got the gory details.... I too had the privy (skype conversations on a found memory stick) .... the whole thing makes me throw up in my mouth a little bit.
There is not much I can say to comfort you as this may seem to be the final blow. However, having this blow up in his face may also be the kick in the ass he needs. I dont' remember your H ever seeming happy during all of this.... especailly in the last year or so.
You sound as if you are doing as well as expected and know that we all love you and support you and wish we could all be there to hug you and lift you up and then Kick his *ss while you watch..... hhhmmm anger does feel good after sadness for so long doesn't it?
Take Care my far away friend!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
