You aren't suggesting that I confront the OM; are you? I have no idea what I would say. I think he is a sad existence of a human being. He was my wife's boss when he told her that "loved her". He is telling her that our children are not benefiting by living in a "loveless marriage". He has given her information on how to deal with the children in a divorce. The whole time telling her that he will just back away if she thinks that we have a chance. And that is just the tip of the iceburg.
If I did meet this guy now, I am not sure I would be able to keep my cool. He is making it very difficult for us to work on our marriage. Because of their current job positions it is hard for her to completely seperate herself from him. However, he is no longer her boss.
