Forget my idea... That was pre-multiple approaches about your wife and her TKD friend. At this point, she's not worth the mat she shares w/the Dali Lama (sp?)
I like your approach... I might use it myself someday. Not sure a hairdresser would fit the bill, though! I'm thinking a little more masculine! KIDDING!!!
OK, seriously, at least ya' know ya' still got it! Confidence booster? (Not bad after me or the mat evenings...)
So, my opinion. Something tells me that Mrs. SMQ is nuttier than you're even letting on... These little snippets keep coming out, leaving me w/my jaw dropped. Honestly, does she function normally during the day? Have a career? Carpool the kids?
ODD
You need some normalcy for you and your kids. You need some W boundaries. You need some increasingly smiling moments. Only you can choose you get those! If you're good, and you feel like you're doing the best for your family, that's all that really matters, right?
The continuous build of intel, and approaches by others regarding W, is not good. You need to get your arms around it, and resolve where you are with it, and define those boundaries.
I'm pretty opinionated, so feel free to ignore or tell me the shut the hell up.
MB
PS - Glad to see I still got it, too! LOL Good luck, bud!
Last edited by mindblank; 08/12/0903:01 PM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I'm thinking a little more masculine! KIDDING!!! 
