Just started "No More Mr. Nice Guy" last night. And, yes, I fit the description of the "Nice Guy." I think this is going to be a pretty good one and should help a great deal.
Welcome to the club GIMA!
This book has been a godsend to me. Not sure if you will hit the same things but it's a tough read at times, but makes you look at yourself very closely.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."