I wouldn't respond with any words, actions will work better!

If I was you I would make plans that night for you to do something, and I would leave the house before she does all dressed up wearing cologne, and looking good. Go buy yourself a new outfit to wear, and even if it's too late to make plans with some friends, you could always go to a movie. I would also make sure you don't come home until you know she is back from the concert. Leave before her and come home after she does, maybe not right after her, but a little while later. Let her see that it doesn't bother you, and that you had plans already.


me 34
W 37
three kids 9 13 17
married 14 years together 15
well the bomb has been dropped a few times
most recent was early June