I might be wrong here, but getting in the shower with him may have given the message that you had softened your stance. That may be a boundary you could consider - not showering together until you see the mc.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
