Someone at work here just suggested something. A full on confrontation. He suggested telling her how rediculous she is being and making a move on her sexually and see if that triggers something. If it does not, if she gets angry or anything else, then take action like telling her I will call a L and start the D myself or something like that. I gotta be honest, it sounds good. I'm tired of this, and I'm not just talking about sexually. This waiting, this leaving the house to avoid her, then walking on eggshells when I am around her. He says bring it all up to her, how I have been suffering through this, bending over for her, putting my life on hold while she tries to figure out if she is happy or not, or what she wants. I know this is a bad idea and I won't do it. But for crimaney's sake, it is bloody frustrating.
Again venting...
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
