Just started "No More Mr. Nice Guy" last night. And, yes, I fit the description of the "Nice Guy." I think this is going to be a pretty good one and should help a great deal.
Ya think? I saw this from day one, it's easy to recognise when you are a card carrying member yourself. Your R with your mom was a red flag. NG mentality is fixable but I still have to be aware of it.
Make it a goal to get your wife to touch, hug and kiss you first. This takes the pressure off you and you now get to be the one pursued. Makes you think and see things differently. If she is independent like you described I bet you have heard this, "Don't tell me what to do." Let it be her idea. Make yourself irresistable. Handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
