I asked because I think you can tell a lot about what the future holds during the conversation where they are brought out into the light, their cheating and lying.

I think more than ever, you need to be prepared for when the remorse sets in. I could be wrong, but I think it's coming. I think that last conversation....it was her feeble attempt to keep control. She underestimated you and over estimated her control over the situation.

If she had been crying and sad, and upset and embarassed, I would be more inclined to believe she was truly done with the marriage. I know it sounds odd, but putting myself in her disgusting shoes, that's how I would have reacted if I were truly done with the relationship.


M-34/H-35/S-4
Bomb-11-08
OW confirmed 12-08-OW ends 6-09
D finalized 4-10
Stronger=Happy