Originally Posted By: confusedinpa
She knows I know. She called me tonite to try and drop more guilt on me. I just couldn't control myself as I told her that I knew about the other guys

She tried to deny it but then it got into a the details that I knew and I think she knew she was caught

I told her that I don't know what I'm going to do but she will hear from my lawyer and that I belive the boys need to know the truth

She tried to put the blame on me but I just stopped her and said I don't care what she thinks anymore as since she put someone else's penis in her mouth back in Nov, she had lost all right to put blame on me.

I just told her that I am done being blamed and that she needs to realize that I have lived up to my vows. She has now done the same thing her dad did to her mom and she needs to live with that.

She kept trying to flip it, but I told her that I will be back on Fri to pick up the kids and I will be going to CT next week with the boys. She can not stop me from going with the boys.

She tried to flip it again, but I just said that right now my priority is my family and right now, that only consist of my 2 boys. She is no longer part of my family.

I called my buddy to go to the house and he changed the locks for me.

Not what I wanted to do, but it is what it is.....


Nicely handled. Like we all have been saying. She's just trying to justify her actions.

DONT ENGAGE HER and YOU WILL FORCE HER to FACE HER CONSEQUENCES.

Dont give her an more excuses.

Stay the course...