well I just perused bluerain, but there is so much time passed that I will have to read all at a later time. I did read all of motoB and actually found myself feeling better. Not at his expense by any means, but because I think it makes us stronger to be mindful of what others are going thru and to peak out of the poor me mode... ALso all of the wonderful advise he has been given added to what has been shared on my thread.. I am throwing my sad attitude away for now and going to motivate for a good day!

As I shared with motoB.. when I first started reading his post I was jealous that he at least got to have the interactions.. but the more I read, I started to understand what DBing is all about, the more I see that it really is a necessessity to leave them be.. give them their space and GAL..

I will be praying for all of us to have strength thru this.. but know we must keep in mind things fall into place the way they are suppose to but how we deal with them is our decision...
Happy thoughts everyone!!!


M - 45 1st marriage H - 45 2nd M -T - 14 yrs M - 13 yrs
S - due to job location since 1/08
B - 7/6/2009 EA revealed -9/3/2009 began 6/09 E/A end 9/09
piercing: since 10/09 long distance