motoB.. well I decided to read your sit and that work can wait. You definately have some good advise and great support from the DBers on here! I thank you for suggesting I read .. I am so sorry that things are going so poorly.
I actually think that I am lucky that I dont have the daily/weekly interactions like you do. I am able to take the away time and deal. You have even more ups and downs with the actions and reactions you get from your WAW every tim you interact. Trying to interpret must horrible..
That being said.. maybe you could let the interactions go for some time. dont return the texts.. dont keep her posted on your medical condition.. have your mom or dad do the transfer of D...
Yes I got that from reading this board.. when I first started reading your post I was jealous that you got to have the interactions.. but the more I read, I am starting to understand what DBing is all about, the more I see that it really is a necessessity to leave them be.. give them their space and GAL.. I will keep an eye on how things are going and will pray for your strength thru this.. but keep in mind things fall into place the way they are suppose to but how we deal with them is our decision...
M - 45 1st marriage H - 45 2nd M -T - 14 yrs M - 13 yrs S - due to job location since 1/08 B - 7/6/2009 EA revealed -9/3/2009 began 6/09 E/A end 9/09 piercing: since 10/09 long distance
