I called my buddy to go to the house and he changed the locks for me.
Not what I wanted to do, but it is what it is.....
In my estimation it seems like you are desiring to 'stir the hornets nest'. And at the same time wasting your buddies time. It is not as if changing the locks suddenly turns your place into Ft Knox you know. If she wants in, she will get in ..you do know that, right??
Think more clearly cipa. Thses kinds of decisions show that the distorted thinking is most definetely settling in and throwing off your judgement. You have to fight off natural knee-jerk incliations that we all get. . Steer for the higher road man ..you have to for you and your kids. Don't let this be the beginning of engaging her in her bu!!sh*t. Rise above it man. There has to be one rational well -kept together parent. You are called to be that man..
I am praying earnestly and fervently for you and your's buddy.
