Thanks again.

I am seeing the funny side atm. I was thinking I should video tape her phone conversations and post them on the internet - seriously it is the funniest thing you will ever see.

Also I don't think she really knows whether see wants to be in the relationship or out. Its sort of like she wants to act like a madwomen, see the kids when it suits her, do whatever she wants but she doesn't want a divorce just yet and she isn't leaving the house unless she is going out till all hours. I don't think it is really about me - if I had just let her act like a madwoman I don't think there would be this tension. In saying that when someone appears to be crazy and that person is your wife you tend to say something.

It'll be interesting how this develops over the next couple of months.